How to Choose a Wedding Color Scheme That Actually Feels Like You
Alright, lovebirds, let’s talk about a topic that will set the entire vibe for your wedding: the color scheme. This is more than just picking “pretty colors.” It’s about creating an atmosphere, setting the mood, and making sure your wedding feels like you. So, if the thought of swatches and palettes makes your brain short-circuit, don’t worry—I’ve got you covered.
Step 1: Consider the Vibe You Want
Before we even get into colors, think about the feeling you want your wedding to have. Romantic and timeless? Maybe blush, ivory, and gold. Bold and dramatic? Deep emerald, black, and burgundy. Playful and fun? Pastels and bright pops of color. Your color scheme should match the energy you want to bring to your big day while staying true to your likes. For example; you like black? Use it! There’s no rules for color schemes when it comes down to “your” wedding. More on that on Step 4!
Step 2: Look at Your Venue (Because It Matters!)
Your venue plays a big role in what colors will work best. If you’re getting married in a grand ballroom, deep jewel tones or classic golds will fit right in. Having a beach wedding? Soft blues, sandy neutrals, and corals will blend beautifully. A rustic barn wedding? Earthy tones, terracotta, and greenery will enhance the setting.
Step 3: Get Inspired by the Season
Seasons naturally influence colors, so use that to your advantage. Fall weddings shine with burnt oranges, deep reds, and moody greens. Winter weddings love icy blues, silvers, and rich jewel tones. Spring? Think soft pastels, fresh greens, and florals. Summer is perfect for bright, bold colors like coral, turquoise, or sunflower yellow.
Step 4: Raid Your Own Closet (Seriously)
One of the easiest ways to pick a color scheme that feels like you is to look at what you already love. Open your closet—what colors dominate your wardrobe? If you never wear pink, why would you suddenly want a blush-and-rose-gold wedding? Stick to shades that already make you feel good.
Step 5: Don’t Be Afraid to Break the Rules
Not everything has to match perfectly, and you don’t have to stick to just two colors. Some of the best wedding palettes mix unexpected hues—like dusty blue with mustard, or emerald green with soft peach. If you love color but don’t want your wedding to look like a crayon box explosion, stick to one bold color and pair it with neutral or muted tones. Take a look at the image above: Blue was the main color, and they used other shades of blue to compliment the main.
Step 6: Test It Out
Before committing, create a Pinterest board or use design tools like Canva or Adobe’s Color Wheel to see how your colors look together. Or, grab some fabric swatches and paint samples from a craft store to lay out your vision in real life. Seeing the colors together can help you figure out what works—and what doesn’t.
Final Thought: Go With What You Love
At the end of the day, the best wedding color scheme is the one that feels right to you. Trends come and go, but your wedding should be a reflection of you and your partner’s style. So if you want a red and black wedding with rock ‘n’ roll vibes? Do it. Love the idea of a moody, gothic romance with deep purples and candlelight? Hell yes.
Whatever colors you choose, own them. Make them yours. And if you need a photographer to capture your badass, beautifully color-coordinated wedding, you know where to find me. 😉