You planned for months (or years). You picked out every tiny detail, survived guest lists and seating charts, danced your heart out, and now... it’s over. Suddenly, the to-do list is gone, your inbox is eerily quiet, and you’re sitting on the couch like, “Wait, what now?” Welcome to the post-wedding blues. And yes, they’re 100% real.

Let’s be honest—your wedding photographer is going to be all up in your business. We’re talking everywhere: capturing your nervous giggles while you get ready, that teary hug with Dad, and those sneaky glances you and your partner share when no one’s looking. That’s why it’s so important to choose a photographer who doesn’t just take great photos but feels like a friend.

Because when you’re comfortable? That’s when the magic happens.

If you’re anything like me and you’ve been keeping up with the LOVE LOCKED IN blog, you already know—cookie-cutter weddings just aren’t it anymore. That’s not to say traditional weddings don’t matter. They totally can, if they feel right to you. But let’s be honest—you didn’t say “I do” just to go viral or build a Pinterest board worthy of a million repins. Your wedding isn’t a trend. It’s real. It’s yours.

Alright lovebirds, let’s clear something up—because the world of wedding lingo can be a damn maze sometimes.

You’ve probably heard people throwing around terms like “engagement shoot” and “pre-wedding shoot” like they’re the same thing. And honestly? Sometimes they are. But sometimes… they are so not. So let’s talk about what’s what, why it all matters, and why I’m shouting from the rooftops that every couple should make time for both.

Your wedding should be a true reflection of your love story—without limits, outdated traditions, or anyone dictating how it "should" be done. When I started researching this topic, one thought kept coming up: How do you plan a same-sex wedding? The truth is, just like any other wedding—but there are unique considerations that can make a difference. So, let’s dive into the details! If you're planning a same-sex wedding in New Jersey, you’re in the perfect place. NJ is one of the most LGBTQ+-friendly states, offering endless opportunities to create a celebration that feels authentic to you. Here’s everything you need to know to plan an unforgettable wedding.

All-inclusive wedding packages are the ultimate solution for couples who want a stress-free planning experience. They save you time, simplify logistics, and often deliver cost savings without sacrificing quality. Planning doesn’t have to be a headache—your dream wedding is just a package deal away! 💍