When it comes to wedding planning, choosing the right photographer can make all the difference in how your big day is captured and remembered. If you’re a couple planning your wedding in North New Jersey, you’re in for a treat: this region is full of incredible venues and scenic spots that make for stunning photos. However, a few key “dos and don’ts” can ensure you get the most out of your wedding photography experience.

We’ll go to any lengths for the perfect shot! Here’s Stefan balancing on a toilet in a tiny bathroom just to capture that moment! - Stefan Lane Creative Photography

The Dos

1. Do Your Homework on Local Photographers

No matter where you live, you’ll find photographers. Photographers with a variety of styles, from traditional and posed to candid and editorial. Research photographers who specialize in the style you love and who are familiar with the area. Check out their portfolios, reviews, and social media to get a feel for their work and personality. Where we are located, we have such a diverse range of landscapes (northern NJ)—from the Hudson River views to historic estates—a photographer with local experience can make sure your photos highlight the unique character of your chosen venue.

2. Do Book Early

Most wedding photographers can book up months or even years in advance, especially during peak wedding season (spring and fall). Once you’ve found the right photographer, secure your date as soon as possible. Don’t wait too long, or you might miss out on your top choice.

3. Do Schedule an Engagement Session

An engagement session is not only a great way to get some gorgeous photos before the wedding, but it’s also a fantastic way to build rapport with your photographer. For North Jersey couples, consider spots like Hoboken's waterfront with a view of NYC, or the rolling hills of the High Point State Park. By the time the wedding rolls around, you’ll feel comfortable with your photographer, and they’ll know how to bring out the best in you.

4. Do Create a Shot List—But Keep It Simple

It’s totally fine to have a few must-have shots, like that perfect shot under the venue’s iconic gazebo or a family portrait. However, avoid making a list that’s too long or overly detailed. Your photographer has the expertise to capture those meaningful moments naturally. Discuss a few specific requests but let them have the creative freedom to document the day in its best light.

5. Do Trust Your Photographer’s Expertise

You’ve chosen a professional, so let them work their magic! Experienced photographers know how to handle different lighting conditions, adjust to unpredictable weather, and make quick decisions to capture perfect shots. New Jersey weather can be a bit of a wild card, but a seasoned photographer will adapt and make the most of the day.

6. Do Consider Two Photographers

With two photographers, you get twice the coverage. One can focus on candid moments while the other captures traditional shots, like the ceremony and family portraits. This setup is ideal if you have a large guest list or want to ensure nothing is missed. Many North Jersey photographers offer this option, so consider adding it to your package for the ultimate coverage. We provide 2 photographers for every wedding. For us, it’s a MUST HAVE!!

We’ve got a tag-team approach—like wrestlers swapping in—to capture each family portrait twice. It’s our way of making sure we absolutely nail the shot! - Stefan Lane Creative Photography

The Don’ts

1. Don’t Skimp on Photography Budget

When planning your wedding, costs can add up quickly. However, remember that after the flowers fade (and die) and the cake is eaten, it’s the photos that remain. Prioritize photography in your budget to ensure you’re investing in quality work. Experienced photographers might cost a bit more, but they’ll capture your day beautifully, giving you timeless memories. That’s why our top tip in the Do’s is: Do Your Homework! Research, research, and more research!

2. Don’t Rely on DIY Timelines

Weddings often have multiple locations involved: maybe you’re getting ready at a hotel, having the ceremony at a church, and the reception at a nearby venue. Rely on your photographer’s input when creating your timeline. They’ll know exactly how much time is needed for travel, photos, and transitioning between moments without rushing. Avoid DIY timelines that might miss out on these important considerations.

3. Don’t Overlook Golden Hour

For those dreamy, soft-lit photos, schedule time during the golden hour—the hour before sunset. North Jersey’s diverse landscapes offer stunning options for golden hour photos, whether it’s against a city skyline or in a lush garden. Don’t miss out on this magical time for portraits, as it can add an ethereal glow to your wedding album.

4. Don’t Stress About Weather

North Jersey weather is unpredictable, but rain or shine, a skilled photographer will make it work. Embrace any weather changes—sometimes a little drizzle or dramatic clouds can create unforgettable photos. Just have a few clear umbrellas on standby, and trust your photographer to make the most of the conditions.

5. Don’t Get Hung Up on Pinterest Shots

Pinterest is amazing for inspiration, but recreating specific shots can feel forced. Instead of asking your photographer to mimic images you’ve found, communicate the feeling or vibe you love. If you adore romantic shots in nature, tell them that, and let them bring their unique style to create photos that are uniquely yours.

We all know brides take a bit longer to get ready, so it’s essential for a photographer to keep things lively on the groom’s side. - Stefan Lane Creative Photography

Don’t Forget to Relax and Have Fun

This is your day, and it should be enjoyable! Trust your photographer to capture the big and small moments, and don’t worry about the camera all the time. Laugh, dance, and savor every second—you’ll look your best when you’re genuinely enjoying yourself. Your photographer will be there to document it all so that you can relive the magic for years to come.

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The Dos and Don’ts of Wedding Photography