5 Things Brides Forget to Ask Their Wedding Photographer
Planning a wedding is a wild ride. You've booked the venue, tasted the cake (yum), and found the dress. But somewhere along the way, one of the most important details—your wedding photographer—might have slipped through with a few unasked questions. And, as a pro wedding photographer with a good dose of humor and honesty, I’m here to ensure you don’t miss a beat! So, here are five things you might forget to ask, but definitely shouldn't.
“Photographers know the universe has a way of tossing curveballs…”
1. "What’s Your Backup Plan for Everything?"
Photographers know the universe has a way of tossing curveballs when we least expect it. I get it; asking about potentially disastrous scenarios isn’t the most romantic conversation. But trust me, it’s worth knowing what happens if my camera decides to ghost me, or if traffic turns into a monster on the day of your wedding.
My Response: I always bring backup gear, have an assistant photographer, and even plan for extra travel time. One of the sayings you’ll most likely hear me say is; “if you’re on time, you’re late.” I don’t play around when it comes to capturing your big day.
2. "Can I See a Full Wedding Album You’ve Shot?"
Checking out a photographer’s best work on their site or Instagram is cool, but real life isn’t all the best moments. A full wedding gallery will show you how your photographer handles every part of the day—from the ceremony kiss to Aunt Betty's dance floor moves. You want consistency, not just the highlights.
My Response: I’ll happily share a full wedding album with you. I know my style might not be for everyone (hey, that’s okay!), but if the full story speaks to you, I’m your dude. 😉
3. "What’s the Deal with Post-Wedding Edits and Delivery?"
Ah, the mystery of the editing timeline. Some brides imagine getting their wedding photos instantly (I mean, who wouldn’t?), but the truth is, editing takes time. Find out when to expect your images so you’re not anxiously refreshing your email at midnight.
My Response: I’ll give you an honest timeline so you know exactly when you’ll get your images. Editing is where the magic happens, and I don’t outsource it to anyone—so every photo is personally crafted by yours truly. The best part? Our time together doesn’t stop at the final send-off. We’ll be in touch over the following weeks as I dive into editing—I honestly get a bit teary reliving your day through the photos. It’s such a great feeling!
4. "How Do You Handle Family Photos? Will You Organize All Those Aunties and Cousins?"
Ah, the family photo extravaganza—a wedding day tradition with a side of organized chaos. Coordinating the group photos isn’t always easy, but a great photographer knows how to make it happen (and keep it fun!).
My Response: Don’t worry, I’ve got the family wrangling covered! My assistant and I will work with you to get everyone in place and looking their best (or at least not giving their best grumpy face.). Before the big day, we’ll send you a questionnaire to find out who the VIPs are (and who isn’t) so we can nail those family shots. You can relax knowing these shots will turn out beautifully, with zero family drama.
5. "What Happens If We’re Running Behind Schedule?"
Weddings tend to run on their own clock, and the day can speed up in an instant. Knowing how your photographer deals with a shifting schedule can be a lifesaver for your stress levels.
My Response: Don’t worry! I’m flexible and won’t let a time crunch ruin the vibe. If things start to run late, I’ll work with you to get the best shots in a condensed timeframe so that you don’t miss a single unforgettable moment.
“If things start to run late, I’ll work with you to get the best shots in a condensed timeframe so that you don’t miss a single unforgettable moment.”
Wrap Up
Your photographer is more than just a vendor; they’re your partner in preserving the day. So, if you have questions about anything else—gear, logistics, my dance moves (okay, maybe not that)—ask away. And if you're looking for a photographer who gets it and loves to keep it real, well, I think we might just be the perfect match.